The Emotional Side of Moving

When it comes to real estate, we often focus on the practical steps: finding the right home, negotiating offers, and signing papers. But there is another side that sometimes catches people off guard: the emotional side of moving.

Whether you are moving across town or across the country, saying goodbye to a home is a big deal. It is not just a house; it is the place where birthdays were celebrated, holidays were hosted, and everyday life unfolded. It is where you made memories, laughed, and maybe even shed a few tears.

Scott and I have moved 17 times in our marriage, over five different states. The cross-state moves were the hardest as we left dear friends and sometimes even pets behind. 

Letting Go Is Hard, and That's Okay

It is perfectly normal to feel a sense of loss when leaving a home, even if you are excited about what is ahead. We have walked with so many families through this process, from first-time buyers to retirees downsizing, and one thing is always true: every home holds a story.

Give yourself permission to honor those memories. Take time to walk through the house one last time, share stories with your family, or even take photos to remember the special moments you created there. It is not silly; it is healing. Scott would always say his quick goodbye with a waive more like a salute, and then wait in the car for me to cry, say a prayer over the house for the next owners and reminisce. I don't regret any of our moves, they all served a different purpose or season of our lives, however, each move left behind beautiful memories (and some bad ones) and life represented and lived well. 

Focus on What's Next

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While it is important to honor where you have been, it is also helpful to shift your focus to where you are going. Picture the possibilities in your new home: the memories you will make, the new routines you will build, and the opportunities for growth and connection.

Think about how your new space will serve your current season of life. Maybe it is a bigger kitchen for family dinners, a shorter commute for more time with loved ones, or a cozy backyard for quiet mornings with coffee.

You're Not Alone

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At The Duncan Team, we understand that moving is not just a transaction; it is a transition. We are here to support you every step of the way with guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear. Whether it is your first move or your fifth, we are honored to walk this journey with you.

If you are feeling overwhelmed about a move, or even just thinking about one, let’s talk. We would love to help you make the transition as smooth and meaningful as possible. Because at the end of the day, it is not just about the house; it is about the heart that makes it home.

Moving isn’t just about finding a new house. It’s an emotional journey, and we’re here to walk it with you.